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Coaching Basics
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Coaching helps people get a clearer vision of their future and understand how to use their strengths to turn that vision into reality. Coaching involves conversations where the client gains new awareness, leading to fresh solutions and opportunities. It has roots in various fields like leadership studies, psychology, sociology, neuroscience, and education.
A coach doesn’t give advice but focuses on helping the client find their own solutions. The coach manages the process by asking clear and powerful questions, guiding the client to the core of the issue.
Coaching is like putting together a puzzle. The goal is to fit a few pieces at each session until the big picture becomes clear. This picture is often new, refreshing, and energizing because the client’s dreams and expectations are transformed into clear goals with action plans.
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Coaching focuses on helping clients achieve specific goals by guiding them to find their own solutions. Coaching looks primarily towards future possibilities.
Psychotherapy addresses emotional healing and mental health challenges, often exploring past experiences.
Mentoring involves sharing expertise and advice, with the mentor often acting as a role model for the mentee.
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In coaching, the client is the person being coached and working towards personal or professional goals.
The sponsor is someone who funds or arranges the coaching, like an employer, but isn't the direct recipient of the coaching services.
In 1-on-1 coaching, the client and sponsor are often the same person.
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The International Coaching Federation (ICF) Code of Ethics outlines the core values and ethical principles that guide professional coaching. It emphasizes integrity, professionalism, and respect in all coaching interactions. The Code is structured into five main parts:
Purpose. This section explains the purpose of the Code, which is to uphold the integrity of the coaching profession and provide a framework for ethical decision-making. It also highlights the expanded scope, applying to all individuals within the ICF Ecosystem, including volunteers and staff.
ICF Core Values and Ethical Principles. The core values — Professionalism, Collaboration, Humanity, and Equity — are accompanied by behavioral examples, illustrating how these values are demonstrated in practice.
Commitments for All Within the ICF Ecosystem. This section outlines the commitments expected from all individuals within the ICF Ecosystem, emphasizing ethical behavior, accountability, and adherence to the "Do Good" principle in their professional roles
Ethical Standards. This section is reorganized into five categories: Agreements, Confidentiality, Professional Conduct, Value Delivery, and Integrity & Accountability. It provides detailed guidelines on topics such as managing conflicts of interest, promoting equity and inclusion, and using technology responsibly.
Pledge. Coaches commit to adhering to the Code and upholding its principles, including fostering ethical growth through self-reflection and education.
Additionally, the ICF Code of Ethics includes an Appendix with Key Definitions and an expanded Glossary, with over 40 terms, such as "Coaching Platforms," "AI," and "Conflict of Interest," ensuring clarity and shared understanding among professionals.
The ICF Code of Ethics serves as a vital resource for coaches, helping them navigate complex situations while maintaining the highest standards of ethical conduct. The current ICF Code of Ethics went into effect on April 1, 2025. You can explore the full Code here.
1:1 Coaching
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My coaching is collaborative, strengths‑based, and grounded in the ICF Code of Ethics. Sessions are a supportive space where we explore your goals, challenges, and strengths together. We agree on the structure and expectations at the start of our work, so you always know what to expect.
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Speshal Coaching centers autistic, ADHD, and AuDHD women and moms, especially those who are late‑discovered, newly exploring their neurodivergence, or navigating burnout, masking fatigue, or identity shifts.
Many of the people I work with are moving through:
late or recent diagnosis
chronic overwhelm or autistic burnout
sensory load and emotional exhaustion
shifting identity after discovering their neurodivergence
difficulty setting or maintaining boundaries
the weight of always being “on”
And while this work is designed with neurodivergent women and moms in mind, everyone is welcome here. This is a safe, compassionate space for people of all identities and lived experiences, including LGBTQIA+ individuals, neurodivergent folks of all kinds, people with visible and invisible disabilities, and humans of all ages, races, and religions.
You don’t need a formal diagnosis. You don’t need to explain your wiring. You don’t need to perform.
Just come as your own Speshal self.
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I offer personal 1:1 coaching for autistic, ADHD and AuDHD women and moms, including the Speshal Self program, a gentle, strengths‑based coaching journey designed to help you reconnect with yourself beyond roles, masking, and overwhelm.
Coaching is available in the format that suits your needs and location:
Reykjavík capital area:
In-person sessions (at my office or another agreed upon location)
Walking sessions (Coaching while going for a walk — weather permitting)
Online
Worldwide:
Online
Speshal Self can be experienced in any of these formats.
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My office for in-person sessions in Reykjavík is at Skeifan 19.
You can find the details here.
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While I work primarily in English, I also offer coaching in German and Icelandic.
Because I have lived across cultures, I believe language should never be a barrier to accessing the support you need.
Workplace Solutions
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I offer neuroinclusion‑focused workplace support that helps organizations strengthen communication, reduce friction, and create more sustainable, psychologically safe work environments. This includes foundational neurodiversity training, leadership‑focused development for managers and HR, and confidential 1:1 coaching for neurodivergent employees. Package options combining training and coaching are also available.
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My clients include companies, teams, and leaders who want to strengthen communication, reduce overwhelm, and support neurodivergent employees in a practical, human‑centered way.
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Yes. I provide workshops, training sessions, and consulting tailored to each organization’s needs — from foundational neuroinclusion to communication tools and leadership support.
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Yes. All workplace services can be delivered online, making them accessible regardless of location.
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Workplace services are available in English, German, and Icelandic.